This seemed like an odd question to have asked of me around 4am by a night nurse I’d never seen before and didn’t see again. I was recovering from serious surgery and an illness that might well have killed me. As far as I was concerned the illness struck without warning and was undeserved. Curiously, I felt that my formal entry to the world of coaching some years before had indeed awakened a realisation of my purpose. My work was helping people to find their way forward through difficult circumstances, reducing stress, improving communications and promoting organisational learning. So what was missing?
Over the next year my health improved, my wounds healed and I regained the weight the fever had stripped from me. Then in 2009, most unexpectedly, I fell in love. Suddenly I was transported back 25 years, filled with excitement, hope and total infatuation. There was something incongruent about a balding middle aged man being so smitten with a beautiful woman 7 years his junior. But that summer was wonderful and made me want to turn the clock back as best I could. I wanted to live really healthily and avoid any repetition of my hospital experiences. As I searched the internet for answers it slowly emerged that my previous ideas of healthy living were quite wrong. For years I had rode the cultural conveyor belt of the ‘vertically sick’. It now seemed strange that I hadn’t been ‘horizontally sick’ long before.
The relationship didn’t last but it was certainly a landmark in my life. It caused me to look at an even bigger picture than I’d previously considered –at the interrelationship between the physical, mental, emotional and social aspects of our existence, - at the meaning of life itself. My blog pieces are intended to share my perspectives on health in its widest sense, beginning with the individual and extending to the wider context of workplace and community.
So why might anyone be interested in Action Centred Health? Let me ask another question. - How important is it to you that you enjoy good health and vitality in every aspect of your life – personal, organisational and social? To me it is sufficiently important to have adopted a lifestyle that has reversed a pre-diabetic condition, shed 23lbs, reduced blood pressure from 170/110 to 130/80 and dramatically improved a threatening cholesterol profile, all without medication. To the extent that we move away from the Sick/Not Sick paradigm toward optimum health so we will improve every aspect of our lives. I want more than purely survival, I want life to the full.
This is not about perfection. It’s not about turning back the clock or denying our experience. It is about celebrating who we are and achieving all of which we’re able from the very real circumstances that we’re in. It’s about creating the work environments that stimulate our creativity and best efforts. It’s about building homes and communities that nurture and through which we find fulfilment. It’s about living in sustainable ways so that we pass on a world that future generations can enjoy. So think big and live courageously. As Ghandi put it – ‘be the change you want to see in the world’.
I’m on a mission to contribute to a better world. One that John Lennon sang about, one that challenges us to be our best. Suddenly life appears too short yet totally wonderful. Perhaps this is why I was spared. What about you?
© Paul Curran, August 2011